There are some things that you just have to take as-is and let go. Because if you begin unravel it and try to analyze it, it's simply not going to make any sense. And because of your inability to rationalize, you're going to feel confused, angry, and disappointed. As a matter of fact, you're probably going to feel disappointed regardless. So the most effective course of action is also the most necessary, yet counter-intuitive one-- deactivating all present self-defense mechanisms and move on. The focus is then shifted to the betterment of the individual, not the situation. And from this mental shift results development, leaving behind what once reminded you most about yourself and the person who once completed you.
Recharge
Revise
Relaunch.